Ok...... I wanted to vent my opinions on this weird social construct that we call 'Santa Claus'. I want to preface this with - I do not have any children of my own, and have nothing against anyone telling their children about Santa - however I used to work with children and young adults with special needs and therefore have experienced first hand the confusion that this kind of hypocritical social construct can cause. Let's start by breaking down exactly what (or who) Santa is, without taking any festivity or tradition into account: Santa is an old man who comes into your house in the middle of the night (down the chimney no less?!) and leaves presents for children. By this logic, we can both trust unknown men in our house (while we are sleeping) and especially unknown men who give us presents. As neuro-typical adults, we understand this construct as 'tradition' and 'a bit of fun', or whatever you want to call it. But for some people, rules (do not trust un
A short one, as typing is very tricky at the moment! I'm going to try to amalgamate what 2 specialists have said to me, one yesterday and one 15+ years ago. I have written before about the haemorrhages I had in the past, caused by ' cavernomas ' in my brain. Cavernomas are essentially little clusters of veins that can bleed. Most people have them and if they were in your skin they would appear as little blemishes. I happen to have them in my brain! I guess I was born with these in my brain, although they have never been picked up before on any MRI or CT scan. I had one that bled three times when I was younger that caused my disability and I had 2 operations to remove. 2 weeks ago, I started to experience extreme tiredness (which I put down to coding) and trouble speaking and typing (which I put down to stress). I've spent the best part of a week in hospital and have had numerous scans on my head. I'm sure I glow with radiation now! It seems that I have had anot